Friday, November 07, 2008

The bed issues continue......

No pictures for this post. If you need a picture to go along with this post, see "Big Girl Bed" below. If I don't document these stories, I'm afraid I'll forget them so here goes. It has been a roller coaster ride these last few weeks with Maddie's naps and bedtime. Long story short, she has been enjoying the freedom of being in a bed versus a crib. We however have not enjoyed it as much. She discovered how to get out of her room (she was previously unable to open a door with a knob). Check that off on the developmental skills checklist. Opens doors with knobs, check. Great. Now what? We tried the baby gate in the doorway after repeatedly, and I mean repeatedly as in 20-30 times, coming out of her room during naptime or bedtime. That went over horribly and we listened to a pitifully screaming child, "Mommy, wanna get out!!" for an hour one night and realized that was not the solution. Put the door knob covers on you say? Nope, tried it and Maddie/Houdini still managed to get the door open. So we got serious and switched the door knobs around so the lock is on the outside. Bed time has gotten much better, in fact, I sit here tonight writing this after putting her to bed, not locking the door and watching her drift off to sleep quietly in the monitor. Maybe that's because she didn't nap today and she's exhausted!!! So we still have some progress to make on nap time. Maddie often prefers to just play instead of sleep. But at least it's contained play. The highlights and funny things I don't want to forget of these sleep challenging weeks are the following.

1. I found her on top of her changing table with a bottle of lotion all over herself. Yes, she climbed up there all on her own. How? I don't know. But it's no longer in her room.
2. She fell asleep one night after taking off her pants and diaper, on the floor with her bare butt facing right up into the monitor.
3. Has started telling us to "Wait!" as we leave her room. She stands up, holds her finger up and says, "Wait!" Then the words that follow are enough to crack us up (me, Chris, and my mom).
"Wait!.....Can you do me a favor?"
and one night, it was
"Wait!.....I have to go potty." This coming from a girl who otherwise has no desire to sit on the potty. Man, she's good.
4. At my mom's house, Maddie was grunting in the monitor which is a sure sign she has pooped. Then it got totally quiet. Since she was out of view on the monitor, my mom went in to check on her and found her sound asleep on the floor. She stayed asleep the entire time Nana changed her diaper and never woke up.
5. And finally, last Sunday morning, we were woken up by a smiling face in our room instead of hearing her wake up in her room and call for us. Chris said that's a day that he'll always remember. She is getting so independent.

Some days I find humor in all of this. One day when she wasn't napping and doing all sorts of crazy things in her room, I called Chris at work and was laughing so hard telling him about it, that he put me on speaker phone so his coworker could hear me and he asked if I had been drinking! Other days, I'm at my wits end, trying to figure out why my child won't nap. Those days I usually call a friend or my mom. Thank you Chris, Mom, Mia, and Michelle for keeping me sane. Misery loves company and it's nice to know Maddie's not the only one having a party in her room at nap time!

1 comment:

Flannery @ Three Sisterz said...

Eleanor used to go to sleep on the floor with her face pressed up against the crack in the door. It was awful but we got through it! I love this age....they really are so much fun to hang out with because they keep you amused!! Wish we could be there to share in the fun.